what have i asked the yijing?

i saw P, my ex-girlfriend, on tuesday, she is eager to see more of me, possibly even in a sexual way, she is seeing one or two other men at present, we kissed...

i am still unsure of how able i am to breeze in & out of P's life, as i told her, i'm still close to being in love with her...

& so i ask the yijing:

how much will i let P into my life in this time - now that she doesn't belong to me?

the coins say:

7
7
7
9
7
7
which gives me:
hexagram 1, moving line 3, giving hexagram 10 

1 The Creative

The Creative works sublime success,
furthering through perseverance.

1/3:

All day long the superior man is creatively active.
At nightfall his mind is still beset with cares.
Danger. No blame.

10 Treading

Treading. Treading upon the tail of the tiger.
It does not bite the man. Success.

in the commentary for 1/3 it says this:

A sphere of influence opens up for the great man. His fame begins to spread. The masses flock to him. His inner power is adequate to the increased outer activity.

somehow i'm the great man here, not that i'm taking that to my ego, just reading the signs, elsewhere the commentary mentions that danger, that maybe my inner power is not adequate to the increased demands... but despite the danger i behave rightly and am alright...

treading, the notion that i'm the one treading on P's tail, but she doesn't bite me, but also the idea that she's treading on my tail and i don't bite her...

i'm going to take it as it comes with P, not do too much to encourage her, but i guess this reading reminds me that i can deal with it, so if/when it comes... embrace it...

another look at it from jou tsang hwa referring to 1/3 says: catch the opportunity, it will soon disappear without a trace... a question there for me, but i'll wait & see, instead of catching this opportunity...

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